AsianDate

I'am glad that I found out about this site before spending thousands of dollars on credits which I have read the horror stories there of.
Long story short, I became close to a girl "Yuan"and started to develop some feelings based on our letters and chats. But something kept telling me that something is not right here, as the saying "if it's too good to be true then it probably is".
As a test I created a fake profile as a professional athlete and posted a fake picture as to cast the widest "net" possible. I added a few favorites one of which was the woman previously mentioned. I waited a couple of days and without doing anything and got a TON of emails from the vultures on the site "claiming" to be single and wanting to contact me.
I then proceeded to log on and my lady known as "Yuan" invited me to chat saying how she loves "athletes!" Yeah I bet you do...
Now comes the beautiful part - I started to make chit chat about this and that and "Yuan" gave my "fake" pro athlete persona the same lines that she had used on my real profile when I was chatting with her! It is worth noting that we had "nicknames" for each other and I used this to my advantage.
As the conversation developed I asked what music she liked and what her favorite song was. She told me of course what song she liked as on my real profile. I then said that I had a friend who loved that song and sang it all the time. His name is "Le" which is the nickname she gave me on my real profile. WHOOOOOOPS!
She then asked if I knew "Le" which I responded, "yes, very well -he is typing to you right now" Thant's when she broke down said that this site was fake, 90 percent of the girls work for the site and get paid a percentage of the credit spent by chumps like me. She felt horrible (yeah right) and told me that she wanted to say something but could not in fear of losing her job (yeah right). I told her that karma is a $#*! and one day her actions now will come back to haunt her, the politely told her to drop dead and die. I logged in a couple of hours later as my pro athlete persona and there she was, back on line and tricking some unlucky bastard out of their money. The machine rolls on.
So do yourself a favor don't read any of the "positive" reviews here, chances are AsianDate are fictitious and most likely from Asiandate.com to counter the real truth about this site. If you have money (and LOTS of it) and are looking for entertainment go ahead and amuse yourself. Just know that none of it is real.
But if you are really looking for that soul mate and love, read this again and stay away at all cost.

Hi,
I would like to say Thank you soooooooo much to asiandate team for all the beautifull pictures that AsianDate show, but unfortunately, it's the only positive thing on this suckermoney site. But you know I am suspicious of nature and when I came on this site, maybe 2 months ago, I 've made a very simple profile, WHITHOUT PICTURES and immediately I arrive on the site, I had responses: "oh, you are so nice, I like your profile,"... and so on. 1 second on the site, you have contacts, messages, chat asking,... but you can not read the messages or chat if you don't spend money but sometimes you have "special offer" and you can read the message for free and see beautifull letters like you never received before, but wait. One of the first thing that I asked to my self is: How do the girls do to join the site? If I'm a chinese girl and want to be on the site: I CAN NOT! (RED POINT) I am almost 50 years old and for sure, I don't want a 22 y/o young girl as nice as she is but believe me, I NEVER received a message of a 45 or 50 y/o and those last two months I received certainly more than 500 letters!(RED POINT) All those messages come from girls of age 30 y/o maximum, and 2 or 3 times maybe from 33 and 35y/o girls. I received more than 50 letters from the same 3 or 4 girls and of course I'have never open one cause you have to pay for it and sometimes 2, 3, 4 letters the same day, can you inderstand that? I want to invite you to read this site that I found early when I came into asiandate:
"Why I believe that asiandate.com is a scam: my negative review"
You need a long time time to read this but it's really well done and will prove to you that the site is a real joke. I'm glad cause I never spent one penny on the site. I think the mistake that people do is to dive eyes first and open wallet on that kind of site because, and it's true, I say it once more, this is full of beautiful girls and women! Too nice to be true! When you are on the site, looking for a girl profile page, you can see in the corner top-right: "confirmed profile" (RED POINT) put your mouse on it and it's said that this girls doesn't use any other site while she is on asiandate, mistake once more. You can find a lot of those girls on other sites and discover by the same time the same pictures and sometimes a date, because on asiandate you can not see when the girls came on the site. A lot of girls on Asiandate are certainly there for years. How is it possible that on asian date I've seen a beautifull girl (between other of course), 25 y/o coming from shangsha, and she was flight attendant and on a other site, I could see her with exactly the same pictures, 22 y/o coming from Anhui, and was working as lawyer,...?!?!?! On a other site, she was 27 y/o from another place in the hunan province, and was working like... veterinary. A very smart girl, don't you think? Lawyer, veterinary, air hostess,(RED POINT). But I'm almost sure that all those girls can't help it, and don't know what the site do with their pictures and I don't know wich way they use to have those pictures. Certainly with a little money and a signature form from them, because try to imagine how many men come on this site, and how much money they lose! (RED POINT) on this site, all the girls have good situation, you can not find a girl who's working in a factory, or waitress or other simple job. I can say again and again but now I just want to say,
Take care before give money on that site, wait and see and you discover a lot of things by yourself. F. asiandate, you've broken my heart. I live now in Cambodia for almost two years and I know that it's not trough your site that I will met the chinese wife that I 'm waiting for years, F... you, C. H.

I found out after I signed up that this site is run by the same people (from Russia) that run anastasia.com, a service I had tried in the past. As mentioned by a few others, I am sure there are some small number of women on these sites who are sincere. I met one or two on anastasia. But when I travelled to Ukraine and had a chance to observe this first hand and talk to some of the ladies, I found out the agency pays ladies to email men. Women who told men AsianDate were interested in men failed to even show up when the men travelled to Ukraine. One man went on a date with a woman whose English was supposedly poor and paid Anastasia for a translator... then several nights later he ran into another man on the tour who was on a date with another lady... and his date, the one who didn't speak English, was being paid to be the translator. Total rubbish.

So I sent a letter to a lady on Asian Date and asked after a few letters if we could just switch to email and maybe talk via Skype. She claimed my email address was filtered out in the email and that Skype doesn't work from China because China blocks some foreign software. I have spoken via Skype with numerous people from China so I know this to be a bunch of BS... they don't want to switch to email and Skype because they get paid to keep you on the hook... they make money for every email you send thru their website... they make nothing if you leave the site.

Basically, your odds of actually meeting someone on here are 1 in a million. More likely you will get taken for a ride... spend tons of money talking to women who tell you they are looking for their knight in shining armor, that age, money and looks don't matter to them, even that they are crazy in love with you, but they are not the least bit interested in ever being anything other than an employee of the website.

Don't be fooled by the fact the website looks nice or has nice features. It is a honey trap and the people who run it are con men and women.

Stay away... stay far, far away if you know what's good for you.

AsianDate Live Support

Thanks for contacting Asianbeauties Live Support. How can I help?

James

Well I keep writing about the same thing but not getting anywhere

James

I just want my money refunded. Or at least half

James

Thats not gonna happen though right?

AsianDate Live Support

Hello

AsianDate Live Support

Could you kindly specify your issue so that I can properly assist you?

You have left the conversation. To resume chat please send another message.

James

I dont want to writing the same thing over and over again. I just want my money back. I feel I have been cheated and thats it. I dont care about the terms and conditions because AsianDate dont state anywhere that the men pay for the site while the women pay nothing

AsianDate Live Support

The women do not pay anything becuase of cultural differences.

AsianDate Live Support

This has been the business model for over 20 years.

James

Thats not an excuse nor is it valid

James

Its not a business model its a scam

James

Am I gonna get my money back or not

AsianDate Live Support

May I ask you how you expect for us to run our company if we do not charge clients?

AsianDate Live Support

We incur translation costs.

AsianDate Live Support

We also have a verification team, and a full customer support team

James

Well charging $16 to chat for 10 minutes isnt right at all

AsianDate Live Support

We are a premium communication platform

AsianDate Live Support

Additionally, according to our policy, we are unable to process refunds for credits that have already been used.

AsianDate Live Support

We have rendered our services to you.

James

Tried using phone service and interpreter spent more time talkn then both the woman and I put together so you havent rendered anything

James

Your customer service have hung up on me

AsianDate Live Support

I apologize for the inconvenience, however, we are always striving to improve the experience of our members.

James

How do you people sleep at night?

AsianDate Live Support

Please understand that we aim to be as transparent as possible.

AsianDate Live Support

In your case, there is simply no basis for a refund to be executed.

James

I havent gotten a single thing from out of this except grief and an empty wallet. I hope you and all the people at that company get what you deserve.

AsianDate Live Support

Sir, building a relationship takes quite a bit of time. Online dating is just like dating in the real world.

James

Maybe if i were a billionaire

AsianDate Live Support

It is a long process, sir.

James

I had way better luck with the real world

James

Its long cause your people made it that way.

AsianDate Live Support

I understand, I urge you to establish rapport with only 1 or 2 ladies at a time, instead of a larger amount

James

I cant believe i spent 500 dollars to chat with women across the world who I will never meet because I have to pay 16 bucks just to chat with them.

James

Im gonna write a long review about my experience on this website with full details

AsianDate Live Support

We provide a date a lady service where we arrange meeting for you if you decide to go to Asia.

James

Whats that cost $10,000 Im guessing

James

Im gonna write a review of my experience in full detail. This was one of the worst decisions Ive ever made. Thank you for robbing me. Hopefully Ill keep a few dozen others from making the same mistake.

AsianDate Live Support has left the conversation.

AsianDate Live Support

Sir,

AsianDate Live Support

Threats to our company are a violation of our terms and conditions

James

Where is there a threat?

James

Im gonna write a review of my experience on your website. How is that a threat?

James

Tell me how i threaten your company please

James

Because i dont agree with your business policies?

I had a similar situation. I chatted with a 50's lady and the chat sessions would get very expensive. After $700 in fees I was not able to get to a stage where I would be able to exchange address information because the translator was trading my words. It became rather obvious when I received an email in which she turned on me accusing me of wanting to leave the site without her which was along way from what I had said. Customer service had told me that she needed one or two icons on her profile and I had asked her to get the agency upgrade her profile. I had now invested another $400. Customer service told me that the lady can say what ever she wants and the translator provides word for word translation. I do not know what more to say to my friend! She still comes online and her profile is "confirmed". I am now waiting to reduce the balance on my credit card before I attempt another visitation. I do not feel there is much I can do to by pass the translator. The telephone calling service maybe rerouted as well. Not sure that I would label it a scam. I was also handed an account with AmoLatina but never made any connection. My "contact" was played with... deletions and their additions! Their Anastasia site I believe provides my email address to outside sources as I regularly receive from woman in the Ukraine which I presume is to bring me in a back door to their site. I have always deleted them.

I had successfully used a site for Russian ladies and was successful with it and actually made two trips to Russia. The ladies that I met did not want to develop a relationship but wanted to marry within a short time (2 or 3 days). Hence no deals were made but it was a great experience.

I am a victim of these sites, I am NOT a competitor. I did my best to get PROPER restitution but was deceived, and gave the site another chance - a mistake. I played by the rules, paid the overpriced call and got burnt. The girl was not interested in direct communication, she could have denied me the call (expense) but could care less. The site said she said I did not write her enough letters and chat! Then she should not have accepted my call request! You will learn why in this review.

Perhaps you wonder if Asian Date, and affiliates are legit and the best way to find your "dream girl". Maybe you wonder if all the girls are real or not. I will present the facts based on EVIDENCE, so that you can decide for yourself.

One of the "dead giveaways" is the constant barrage of chat request, it reveals what is MOST important and what is least important even DISCOURAGED although never verbalized. Chat request must be an important money stream, otherwise why would AsianDate harass us to vehemently.

Most important is that guys will spend money chasing chat request and answering letters which are supposed to lead to the ultimate pay off - an expensive call or outrageous cost for a gift (about $300 and upwards into thousands). This is the ONLY way one can hope to reach any resemblance of reality.

Actually connecting and eventually removing the product - the girl,... from generating revenue for the site, is strongly discouraged! It is in the best interest of the "bottom line" of profitability to keep pretty girls on for as long as possible. It does not matter if they are real or not, one will NEVER know, so why bother?

Consider the following:

1. FACT - IF a man wants to connect with a girl here, he will have to pay a MINIMUM amount of OVER $100 More than likely, he could easily pay thousands in letters, chat, phone calls and gifts - even for only ONE girl. It adds up fast. Oh and did I forget, there is a monthly non refundable fee of $9.99 as well.

OPINION: Girls want as much attention as they can get, so be prepared to empty your bank accounts DAILY - it is a BLACK HOLE, a bottomless pit. Mark my words.

2. FACT - The girl does not have to respond or acknowledge anything - AFTER direct contact is made regardless of how much has been spent or lack of. She could be the real girl in the picture or fake, does not matter at this point. The site will claim that they have no jurisdiction after direct connection is made, a most convenient cop out.

OPINION: But oddly enough, she will most likely talk to you on the site! You will have to spend more for this and see for yourself! Enjoy the money drain! This should remove any doubts as to whether it is "worth it" to spend money here.

3. FACT - The site bombards you with annoying Chat Request. It does not with the same veracity, foster or encourage exclusivity with any girl. There are "free" incentives to communicate (chat) with NEW girls all the time. This starts the money letting process all over again with NO end in site.

Opinion: How can anything else be the true and real purpose of the site(s)? It is like chasing ghost in a room full of mirrors, paying as you go!

4. FACT - On the top and bottom of most pages on the site - Asian Date, Anastasia, and Arabian Date (or not the revised new one), are the most attractive girls, no doubt these stand to make the most money for the site if they don't already.

OPINION: It is like the "pretty" girls standing outside of the whorehouse! They are the ones responsible for getting you to "shop".

5. FACT - Some of the sites appearance have changed to a "new" one. They may use this new format for all the sites.

OPINION: Perhaps to "soften" the blow but they are just as bad, even worse because one may think that things are changed. They haven't, they just become repackaged.

6. FACT - Each girl is valued as a money generator so her leaving is actually a conflict of interest! The site does everything in their power to prevent direct connection without FULL payment - see number 1.

OPINION: They only need a few girls or guys to say they were successful, this will give hope to those who want it. So expect the site to deny this claim, but look at the percentages. Wait, they don't give them, sorry.

7. FACT - Women are not allowed to connect with a man by purchasing his contact information, the site will tell you one reason (or more), but remember the built in "conflict of interest" in #4. So very unfair and old fashioned, but the real reason is, its a conflict of interest.

8. FACT - Only meaningless "dribble" is allowed in conversation. Any attempts at connectivity (sharing of email, account numbers, and or etc.) will be blocked. IMBRA rules can be revealed and signed off to, but the site charges hefty fess for this (built into the process). Other sites charge for this as well, but MANY do not. It is totally FREE. It is not a "mandatory" by law fee.

If sharing this information was allowed, the big pay off would not be realized; phony profiles exposed, and genuine people (profiles) would actually be able to connect! This must NEVER happen under the current policies.

9. FACT - The site brags about how many women are available, but does not disclose in PERCENTAGE how many successful relationships or even connections have or do occur annually. Out of 1,000 women, how many men connect with a girl, by communicating with her, AWAY from this site (directly)?

Bogus claims can be artificially generated, just observe the ladies over time and ask yourself, if so many people are successful, then why are we all still here? How is it possible that no man has secured these pretty girls?

OPINION: I suspect by the obvious, it is far less than one percent. So in reality the women are just chances to spend unlimited amounts of money on! It does not matter if the woman is real or not! A perfect scam.

10. FACT - The site can or will show a FEW successful connections, but this is NOT the norm. The norm is the VAST majority do NOT connect with anyone. Remember, a broken clock tells the right time twice a day.

11. FACT - Spoken and or unspoken, the site's only solution to most problems if not all is, spend MORE money communicating with more women. When it boils down to it, spending MORE money is the ONLY tool to be considered. This is no different than gambling. You may never win, but you will always spend - in who's favor is this?

12. FACT - It is safe to say, these sites, have "mastered" the art of human weaknesses when it comes to men and women. Men want beautiful women, thus the fancy touched, retouched, and photo-shopped to the nth degree pictures; and for women, endless ATTENTION, via letters and chat. The site knows this and lies in wait knowing that men can do nothing until they spend MORE money - at least well over the minimum $100 plus fee. (into thousands upon thousands!)

OPINION: This is a type of "railroading" men to spend. So if you don't believe me or think I am exaggerating, then "knock yourself out" the site makes is "bread & butter" on guys reaching for the "carrot on a stick". This is no more than the carnival "Crane Claw Game" or legalized gambling.

13. FACT - MEN actually have to prove or disprove if a girl is "real" or not! The site only makes claims! A man will have to spend, and spend, and spend, to prove a profile to be genuine! Why is this our responsibility? Why can't the site PROVE its own claims WITHOUT us having to pay for it? Always remember, a picture or even a video does not necessarily prove anything - when you contact a girl away from the site directly - by whatever means, calls, video, chat, etc... that is better proof until you meet - in PERSON.

14. FACT - I have found that most all these girls, regardless of what they say are deadly afraid to meet in person. They will not even talk to you if you find them on one of the social media sites!

I know girls can be shy, there are cultural biases, and or maybe they have been told to be very afraid. You can offer to meet them inside a police station with their bodyguards, they will NOT do it! They see you as a monster - but yet want you to pay constant attention to them - on the site of course!

If girls were allowed to make direct contact with guys, that would prove their true existence, but this is NOT allowed! This alone will solve the most important "truthfulness" question. Men must PAY the high price, and possibly and or easily get nothing, for this.

15. FACT - There are good customers and bad ones in any business.

Opinion: A good customer for these sites is one that dumps large sums of money constantly; and never complains of getting nothing and nowhere. Who does this?

FACT - I was threaten not to mention any of this (they called it their sins!) in a letter from their staff! I guess I would be ashamed and upset to if these things where known about any business - so maybe I cannot blame them for wanting to cover it up. But if the customer wasn't mistreated so unfairly they would have nothing to worry about.

OPINION: A bad customer is basically anyone else.

Perhaps as a guy you are dazzled by the lovely Photo shopped pictures, it is designed to do this, its natural and got me. But at some point you will have to judge for yourself if what I said is true and accurate. You will have to decide whether it is worth the COLOSSAL expense. If you are you a multi millionaire without a brain, you've got nothing to worry about.

I'm on this site for about a year and have spent more than I'd like to admit, especially in the beginning. So I decided to write this review for those that want to try their luck anyway on this site and don't overspend OR warn about its addictive nature.

As many, I was charmed by the many beautiful women writing you in chat or letters. First letters are free since a short time ago, AsianDate used not to be.

Don't missunderstand me: This site and the people running it are evil. They feed on the genuine desire to find love and flog you for every penny you have, if they get their hooks into you.

The basic communication platform would be great, though. The letter and chat system encourage to get in touch with each other. Communication can be fun. So let's get into the systems:

CHAT:
This site features an auto chat request system. Ladies can enter a phrase and personalize it with the profile name of the man. Some ladies type the command wrong so it is partly visible on how they try to add a "personal" flavor to the requests. This system is the reason you get indundated with chat requests. Ladies can write you by themselves as well, but if they do it gets lost in all the automated requests. This auto chat pings are actually a great way for more timid people to make a first step, because it seems like it's not a first step, since you got a message from the lady already. It's a good system to get a conversation going. But as with every good system on asiandate, it is simply always in the shadow of it's business model and malicious other practices.
Chat costs 1credit per minute. This will get expensive fast, so time your chat. Really plan on how you spend your credits. They omit timers from the chat window for a reason.
Users with video: 2min to see their live video, 6 to see each others video. It's not worth it except to check if it's the person on the photos. Otherwise too expensive.

A malicious thing they do: If you chat with someone that has video enabled, it will auto start and 2credits will be immediately deducted, even if you close down the stream. You are not given the option to start the stream yourself.

Chatting otherwise works fine, as you'd expect, though there's heavy censorship going on. Numbers, messengers, phrases are censored so you can't exchange contact information.

Also, since you pay per minute, it is your right to ask for speedy replies. Don't chat with people replying slowly. They are not that interested in you if they don't comply to your request.

LETTERS:

Letters cost 10 credits to read and open. First letters are free since about a short time ago. They are limited to 20k symbols, which is more than enough for most purposes. I use 2-4k per letter. 1 photo is free to add and open, which is comparatively generous for this sites business practices.

Now you can't preview letters. You get a small, small preview of it in your E-Mail when you receive one. There is no indication how big it is. So you could spend 10 credits on a letter of 20 words. Bad value.

That is why I recommend to chat first, get a first impression and set clear guidlines on what you expect in a letter. For me it is: A long letter, for me that's 2k-4k characters. Always a picture. You yourself should put effort into your letter. Make it long ask questions and see if she replies to your questions and generally replies in unique letters. If she puts the effort in, chances are high it's not a fake/paid model.

CHANCES are in general on there: If they are paid to Spam as many members as possible, they will not put effort into communication, in general.

As you might have guessed, I do not think everyone is fake on asiandate. I think there are SOME genuine members, really looking to find their partner. BUT there are also paid models or simply poor asians SPAMMING you with letters.

COST:
Packages: 20c for USD 15,160c for USD 100,1000c for USD 400 and 5000c for USD 2500 (you get that "special" deal as a VIP member instead of discounts)

Chat: 1c per 1min / lady video: 2c per 1min / Video both: 6c for 1min

Letters: 10c for 1 letter (open and send) / 1 photo free to open and attach / ever other photo 15c

Contact exchange fees: Phone: 100c for 10min / 10c per minute after that / send gift (not available for all members) with a letter where you can write your contact info; starts at 250c and goes waaaaaaaaaaaay up from there

Now I'd like to note that many times I exchanged contacts via WeChat, QQ and Mail ladies said they could not add me / find me. Vice versa as well. I know of genuine blocks of E-Mails, but remain doubtful about WeChat and QQ failing.

My tip is, when you have a good feeling, proceed as fast as possible to exchange contact info. You will save more than chatting for hours and it turns out the lady was one of the paid ones. I wasted a lot of money before I learnt that. Get to the point reasonably fast. You'll know if she is genuine or not sooner and waste less money.

Now why am I still on this site? The basic system is good. Getting in touch with people is fun. I am in conversation with someone that plans to visit me. Am I taken for a ride? I'll see on christmas if I am. We write 1 letter per week and she puts the effort in (writes long letters, provides no make-up pics), for example. And even if I it turns out she mysteriously can't come, the only thing I can do is accept it and either decide to leave this site or try my luck again.

Oh: their response to support requests is alright, but it is not justifying their prices. In fact, any justification I heard from company representatives are flimsy to the max. It is to keep appreances up, as transparent as they may be.

So, in closing: Don't overspend. There are some quality people on there, I believe, but always keep in mind that this site operates on pure greed and maliciousness. It's not their intent that you find love.

Try your luck to find them or keep far away from this site. I am curious how it will turn out for me on Christmas.

Update on that Christmas visit: She applied for a VISA about 2 weeks ago and didn't get it yet. Seems like kind of a lie to me. I don't expect her to turn up anytime, so I can chalk this up to another disappointing experience on this site. I would have been happier to report something better, but well, the girls on this site know how to sound sincere. I'm done with this asiandate now. Hopefully you won't be as gullible as me and spend a lot on this site. If anything at all.

Most women on this site appear to be fraudulent in some way. Some will send verbatim emails again after a few weeks, sometimes with address, "Dear (insert man's name)"
I had planned a trip to China last winter, which fell through, and had been engaged in a few ongoing communications with several ladies. All of them had expressed a strong desire to meet and start a relationship, but when my time was approaching and I gave them specific times when I thought I would be able to visit, 4 of them suddenly were unavailable due to "can't get off work, or my parents won't allow me to see you."
The typical way most ladies begin a chat is to ask very sexual questions at the very beginning. "What's your favorite position?" "Where do you want to kiss me, in my flower?" And a letter might begin, "do you love my hot-hot photos, don't you want to $#*! me?" I find this behavior extremely unlikely for almost all Chinese women, but it is common on this site. This is the kind of behavior though for a whore trying to get your money, and that's what this site amounts to. I did one phone call ( cost around $100!) with a lady who I believed would be traveling near to me in the US. The purpose of a phone call is to exchange personal email and phone information. Her English was quite good and clear, yet for some reason the email address and phone # she gave me did not work. Afterward her response was, "geez, sorry, don't know why that doesn't work, guess we can do it again!" Hummmm? Perhaps there are some genuine ladies here, that seems to be the case, who don't look like models and talk like sailors, and probably would be great to meet, but I think AsianDate are few and far between. Also, personally, the fees are outrageous, basically $6-8 to open and to send an email.
This site is excellent at preying on our male egos, and I've let myself get sucked in couple of times. But no more. Buyer beware here guys. Don't say you weren't warned.

AsianDate is advertised as a premium dating site for men interested in connecting with a beautiful Asian woman for marriage or dating. The parent company for AsianDates also administers support for Amolatina and Anastasia. Customer support is located in Moscow or Malten. Yes there are thousands of pictures of gorgeous women on AsianDates with ID numbers. But here's the thing, I received many introductory provocative letters from many Asian women even when I was not an active subscriber or actively using the site. What I find to be consistent with all three sites is when you decide to write letters and or buy gifts for the ladies AsianDate are content or even engage with chat that is fine and dandy with them. The problem I have experienced is when you try to exchange personal information with them the problems set in. They begin to avoid answering your questions or try to prolong the letter writing. Due to my experience initially with Amolatina I became more experienced in how to select a lady to communicate with. Moving forward to AsianDates I chose one woman to write exclusively who was very passionate and very erotic and graphic in her letters to me. On paper we had a lot in common so my thing is after a strong interest is established I want to exchange personal information to keep the communication going at no cost or low cost for me. The lady in question agreed to such but was contradictory in the times she said she was available via email and keep changing the times to have the phone call. She also spoke English very well.as she lived in New York for three years.The first call did not go through because of an issue with the translator. The second did not go through and I never knew why but because of communication by customer support with the local agency I would find it hard to believe there was a problem the second time with the translator. The fact is the lady requested the call to be at 11 p, m, her time because of the time difference between us. This was 7 a.m. my time and I did everything on my end to make sure I was awake and available for a 10 minute phone call to exchange information. She said she wanted very much to get to know me better which I wanted her to do. But it appears she flip flopped in her effort. So the point is I did my part, Customer support likes to claim upon reading the negative reviews that the customers did not reach out to them. Well they definitely cannot make that claim with me. In many cases different account managers got involved without reviewing previous communication and adequately addressing my concerns or provided inconsistent information. In some cases the account mangers completely dropped the ball in what they said they were going to do, So I definitely can not say you get the premium service for your money. The issue with the phone calls and other excuses they make regarding the ladies is not what you would expect for a premium dating site. I requested my account to be closed and not to receive any more blind letters or communication from anyone and this experience with the lady left me disheartened and disappointed. Dealing with these sites is not worth the gamble in my view, yours truly Daryll

It is important to analyze scams carefully. Are there real women on Asiandate? Yes. Are most women on AsianDate real. NO! How can you tell? Well during free chat I would tell an obvious scammer that I was not interested in chatting with paid chatters. AsianDate would respond "Ok". I would then assert so you are admitting you are a paid chatter. Response "Yes."
I then set up 5 separate accounts. The lowest received 400 emails and the most over 1700 emails. However Often the same woman (over 150) wrote to all five accounts and each email they wrote telling the recipient how much they loved them and only them was identical to emails they sent to the other five accounts. In one case one woman wrote over 20 identical emails daily to three of the accounts detailing her dreams about an exclusive future with each recipient. Now if you have researched this you know there are multiple stories of men preparing to go to China to meet the woman of their dreams only to have a male representative call them telling them the woman was no longer interested. I'd bet money the male representative wrote the letters they fell in love with. Are there real women on AsianDate? Of course, but your spending about $3/letter and the chances a serious woman is writing to you are slim and none. That's what I call a scam. It is a scam to get you to write letters and chat with "women" (quotes intentional) who are paid to correspond with you. Those romantic letters are professioally written and you'd have as much chance marrying one of them as you would seeking a bride at a Bordello. In two cases I tracked profiles down on the internet. In both cases they were professional models though their profiles said they were a nurse and a business owner. If you get an erotic picture from one, do a google picture search. 99 percent of the erotic pictures I received had been downloaded from Japanese sex sites. A few that had not, could be found on Chinese sites selling lingerie.

Hello, my name is John, and a few years ago, asiandate (or asianbeauties as it was then) took me for a couple of thousand dollars...

If you've seen my review of chnlove.com, then all of the same things apply to asiandate.com.

Firstly, the charging model: Most dating websites charge a monthly/annual membership fee (perhaps with different levels which give your profile top billing, or other premium services). Not so asiandate. This site charges you "credits" (i. E. real money) for EVERY letter you open from a lady, it charges you for EVERY letter you send to a lady, and it charges you to look at EVERY photo (beyond one "free" one) you receive from a lady, or send to a lady. The cheapest letter you will receive or send is $4, and that's if you've shelled out a whopping $400 on 1000 credits.

So, let's say you want to "live chat" with the lady instead. That'll cost you $0.40 per minute (and most of the ladies are very slow to respond, ker-ching!), $0.80/min if they've got a web cam switched on (ker-ching ker--ching!), and a staggering $2.40/min if you accidentally click the "cam share" option (sorry, the bell in the cash till has ker-chinged itself to death). None of the "cam" options have audio by the way, so you can't actually speak to her, even if she speaks English or you speak Chinese.

Woe betide you if you attempt to send contact details to her (or if she tries to send hers to you) - the chat app has some pretty clever code in it to prevent phone numbers or e-mail addresses from being exchanged. You could be clever and try to code your address but try getting that across to them and it all goes horribly wrong.

So - in short - you WILL spend $thousands, and almost certainly get absolutely nowhere... Most of the profiles are fake, or the ladies have no interest in actually meeting you. Many of them are paid by the site to lure us gullible blokes into paying $$$ for their services. Those that aren't (and there ARE genuine profiles on there) are just as frustrated as we are.

So... what are the chances? Well - it's a gamble. I met a girl on asianbeauties (as it was then), chatted to her a few times (at horrific cost), we seemed to get on well. I tried everything to get her my phone number (including holding up digits on web cam at $2.40/minute). However, someone must have been monitoring our "conversation" as 2 digits in, the video went black, and that was it - we never got it working again. I tried sending it via "love letter", it just got cut out. Eventually, I just arranged to come to China, managed to tell her what date & time (the flight number got blocked)... then jumped on a plane and just hoped for the best... I got lucky. My girl was real, and she met me at the airport. I've seen and heard enough horror stories since, had I heard them before no way would I have gone. As it happened, we weren't compatible, and it didn't work out, but I did have a lovely few days in China with her. She told me her side of the deal with the dating site - which was basically: She'd joined an agency (for a fee). AsianDate did the fancy photography, and "managed" her profile online. I'm sure they "spoke" for her on more than one occasion too... They also warned her that any attempt to try to communicate outside of the site would incur their wrath. So I wonder how many of the ladies on this site have been "kicked off", but the agency they joined keeps them going because it's all good money for them (ker-ching).

TL; DR: asianbeauties.com is a scam site designed to extract maximum dollars from you, the love-lorn Western man. A few of the girls are real, and actually looking for a western boyfriend; many are real but not interested, and most are fakes or forgeries. I recently logged back into my old account (just for a look), and found over 200 letters from one woman alone (it would cost over $800 to read them all). And I hadn't logged in for over 2 years!

Parting thoughts: The photography on this site is beautiful, as are the ladies. If you like looking at pictures of gorgeous Chinese women, this (and chnlove.com) is the place to get them from. For god's sake, just don't part with any actual cash!

If you're serious in your search for a Chinese girlfriend/wife, look elsewhere. I'd recommend chinalovecupid.com (aka chinacupid.com - same site). It's a monthly/quarterly/annual subscription site, but no charges beyond that, and they don't stop you from exchanging contact details with the girls. I found (actually, was found by her) a beautiful girl 15 years younger than me whom I'm going to China to meet next week - after over 4 months of e-daily mailing back and forth, she sent me lots of photos & even a picture of her ID card to prove she's real. All dead easy thanks to the fact we could communicate off-site with ease. If you do go to that site, be aware that the girls all take their own photos, so they look much more "real" - i. E. they're not all supermodels. Or at least, not airbrushed to unrecognisability...

Asiandate: It gets one star for having real profiles (some of them are real...), and loses 4 stars for being a money-grubbing scam site. Also note that it has many sister sites (anastasiadate, for example, I can't recall the others off hand). Apologies for the length of this review, if you stuck it out to the end, thanks!

This site is a total scam, trust me. I've only been on this site for a few weeks now and realized early on that AsianDate were out for your money. All the girls join for free and are not allowed to order any services to meet or talk to you by phone.Its funny how most of the girls are Doctors, Nurses, Student, Flight Attendants, Business owners, Dancers and of course Teachers. I chatted with this one girl that was a teacher and I said, So you are a teacher? She replyed, NO I've baby sited a few times.Its also a red flag when you a not allowed to exchange any personal information in letters or through chatting. They don't want you to exchange emails because than you wont pay for there services anymore. I ordered a call me service for this one girl I liked and it went so bad.The first two times I was waiting around for a call and never got one. They sent me a email saying I never picked up when my phone never rang. I was forced to call and complain about it, then the third time it worked out. I wouldn't say worked out because I couldn't even understand the interrupter to be able too exchange our emails.It took 10 minutes to get most of the email but not all. I paid for a 10 minute call yet they charged me ten credits for going over 1 minute. I was so pissed off that I spent that kind of money for such bad service. Luckly after I wrote a long letter to them, they gave me the rest of her email. Now I have this girls email and shes too busy to write me. When she wrote me letters on the site, they were so wonderful and up lifting. When ever I send a letter to the customer support or live chat, its always the same girl named Anne. I asked so many times to speak to her boss and it never happened. I laugh at there customer service because they say that's part of the reason why there so expensive. Anyways for all those out there that want to meet girls on here, DONT its a waste of money. I told them many times I was going to get my lawyer involved and have them shut down if they don't give me my money back. Well the customer support rep ended the chat without trying to work with me.Its truly said how they can get away with this for so long, I hope someone will shut them down. I hate to see others loose there money and have there hearts shattered over these F in people.

I have been off and on this site and spent way too much. I think it is more scam than real. The older women are probably more real and sincere. Mostly I think it is a letter and chat factory. You pay for everything and unless you pick and communicate with only one person you will pay a ton of money to open letters, send a letter, to even attach a photo costs money. To get more than one photo costs. Each little cost does not seem like a lot but then it adds up very quickly. I have gotten two email and did a translated phone call and then nothing. The worst one was a phone call that cost hundreds for what I think was a fake airline attendant.

What will happen is AsianDate will say most anything you like including hot talk for many. Then nothing quite works out. They cannot meet you on Skype or email or whatever. You must send a gift or pay for a huge slow phone call to get their contact information. Then I will say it is very iffy if you will meet them off the site. They say they do not get paid, but I think they do in some way like free profile or gifts or something that skirts the edge of the truth.

I personally advise you to go to a site where you can get their contact information easily and quickly. This site goes under lots of names and is tied to Anastasia sites. Unless you have a large bank roll and willing to sort of waste money then stay away. I will say they have the most beautiful women by far and an 18 year old will tell you she wants you at 60, but up to you to believe it. If anything go on their trip to see someone real.

In the end I spent a lot of money and I think I chatted with translators who wrote dozens of letters for the ladies. I have 180 letters from one even though I do not write. They often send really stupid letters that can be written to anyone.

Go at your own risk.

You can read the first letter from each lady for free.
You can view the first picture AsianDate attach to their first letter for free.

I had a profile with nothing but my date of birth, nothing else at all about me...
In a few weeks I accumulated 60 letters from ladies telling me how they had all these feelings after reading my (empty) profile.

Every letter came with 2-4 pictures. But only the first picture is free and you can't pick which one.

To view the additional pictures costs "10 credits" per picture. Replying to a letter costs 10 credits.

Every first picture looks like a professional photo (no self pictures, no have a friend snap a picture).

Here is where it gets interesting:
If you have $400 to spend, you can get 1000 credits. That's the CHEAPEST credits you can buy. If you buy the minimum number of credits, you get 20 credits for $16.

So to reply to a message is $4-8. To view the second picture the lady sends in her first letter, $4-8.

Sad to say it, but with nothing in your profile, you'll get a few letters a day from ladies "moved" and "passionate" about your profile. Each with 2-4 pictures. Just to reply or see the second picture costs you, and while I can't say for certain none are legitimate, I seriously doubt that any of the 60 letters I've received are legitimate.

Who would send a letter to a man introducing herself as "so-and-so your future wife" if all she knows about him is his age and country?

If I viewed the additional pictures (beyond the free professional picture) attached to these letters, I would have paid over $300 just to see pictures of 60 ladies. No assurance what the content of the pictures are. For all I know they could be pictures of a sunflower or a rainbow or anything else.

Save your money and go elsewhere. Certainly this isn't where you'll find what you're looking for unless you just want to waste time and money on what seem to be fake women.

I had fun looking at the photos, And was allowed to open first letters for free from all of the women "interested" in me. My profile has posted at very specific information about who I am, where I live, what I do for a living, my hobbies and interests, etc. Each letter of the hundreds I received over three months was very generic and not a single letter mentioned any of the specifics from my profile.
I did purchase some credits and initiated correspondence with two different women. Seven or eight dollars per letter rent or sand is a little too expensive to be sending sure chitchat notes, so I would compose A nice letter, Asking lots of questions, trying to determine if AsianDate might be interested in really getting to know me, Etc. Each time A letter would come back to me saying how nice the weather is today, I am so tired of being alone, it was as if no one at AsianDate had even bother to try to further bait me with their scam.
I opened a second account from a different e-mail address on another computer, and contacted the same women. And guess what? I received the same letter that I had from the first e-mail account. AsianDate and their affiliated websites are phony operations set up only to take your wallet.
There are plenty of asian women listed on some of the free european websites. They might be scammers (buyer beware) but you may proceed in your correspondence without money flying out of your wallet, and the results might possibly be better than they will be at this scam site.

Gentlemen:

I recently took the dating tour to Changsha. Changsha was fantastic. The Golden Source Hotel is in a great location. The views from the 27th floor were inspiring. People in the city were more than friendly, but few spoke English. It was relatively inexpensive and the food was great if you like spicy. There were lots of women at the socials, but a little too old for me. It was like I was being screened from women under 30. I am 57. Unfortunately, none of the women I met on-line were "available" when I arrived in Changsha (27-33 years of age). (I spent about $450 for "Credits" to develop these relationships.) In other words, it is questionable whether I ever corresponded with anyone but an interpreter before I left the US. I was told in Changsha the interpreters "tell white lies for the greater good," whatever that means. Presumably their goal is to get people to China to attend the socials, but I am guessing AsianDate also get paid per letter. So with respect to the email portion of the business, AsianDate is a fraud preying on lonely men. I suspect the vast majority of the money earned by AsianDate is from the purchase of credits for email exchanges. The interpreters are students who also earn college credits for translating emails.

With respect to the social events in China, you will meet a lot of women who are looking for a life partner. They are sincere and attractive. Yet, it is discouraging not to meet the women you spent so much time, and money, getting to know.

My advice- forget the emails. It is a waste of time and money. AsianDates is run by AnastasiaDate located on a small island in the Caribbean, so getting a refund even from Visa is not going to happen. I wrote Visa requesting a refund. Subsequently AsianDate "updated" my account to show several new emails that were "postdated" so I guess I am making a fool of myself by complaining about people not showing up because apparently I was told by one of the women that she was unavailable for a date for the entire ten (10) days I was in Changsha (though I requested a date six (6) weeks before I left and when I paid my tour fee.)

Let the buyer beware.

For me just the very idea that there are men spending thousands of $ in this site is unbelievable.

This site is a pure scam. 100%.

AsianDate don't scam you in the sense of stealing your money. They are very detailed about how much and for what you will pay. Everything is written in their terms and conditions; even below every letter, picture and video, gifts and chats, present and flower. If your credit runs out like a flood, you have yourself to blame for not being careful about reading all their stupid rules. Don't complain.

They scam you by playing with their services. Chats and cam share response from their female members are purposefully either made extremely slow or cut off for ridiculous (if any) reasons. Call quality are either extremely low or takes forever just to exchange personal information like phone number or mail address because you'll need to figure out the difference between "n" and "m", "b" and "d" and "p" and "t" and "c" on and on. All contrary to their claims on providing best quality connection (oh come on this is 2018, even skype gives you better connection and it's free!). It is next to impossible to exchange personal contact infos that you end up either have to reserve more calls or send ridiculously expensive flower bouquet which will for sure enable you to send any info you want to send written in a piece of paper.

They scam you by playing with your imagination. So don't get excited just yet when you get their email addresses or phone numbers.

A relative of mine got more than 10 phone numbers, only one answered his call. Once. After they receive your e-mail address they will respond to you off the site. They send you e-mail and respond to your letters with just 1 or 2 stupid lines, once or twice (could be more if you are "lucky") also before they say "I'm busy with my business" or "I'm on a business trip, be right with you when I'm back" or "my mom got sick" or "me and my mom (or any family member) both got sick and hospitalized" and try to get you back communicating in the site by saying "my e-mail is stolen" (this is a very popular reason to "explain" why they disappear from any off site contact by the way).

No doubt that they provide flawless goddess like pictures of women. Some of the first free letters are attached with porn pictures. Any normal man would drool and get hard stiff erection for it and this is exactly where you will start draining your own credit cards account.

Come on people.

Isn't it strange how many of those women wear the same outfit (I provide some pictures below and those are just SAMPLES. I have many more of them). Some of them send the same letters word by word (I also provide pictures of this type of letters below). Their chats somewhat have no feelings in it, they are either too cold or to blunt for women who never met you or prostitute-like or don't flow naturally.
Some of the women have the exact same style in writing letters. Shouldn't it show that those letters are written by the same person?
Isn't it strange that those women always come online at the exact same time and duration daily?
Isn't it strange that a woman can send 350 "love" letters even though you ignore her completely? Isn't strange that there are too many typos in those "love" letters?
Isn't it strange that a woman with such nice pictures and profile could send letters that only a prostitute would come up with such words (and they don't even know you)?
Isn't it strange that a woman name Leling send a letter with the name Nina?
Isn't it strange that many of those letters content don't flow smoothly?
Isn't it strange that those women don't answer your specific questions directly?
Isn't it strange that a woman so in love with you doesn't put efforts in getting out of the site to communicate with you, knowing that you have to pay for every action?
Isn't it strange that a woman so in love with you send a letter with only compilation of chats?

My relative has been in this site for more than a year, spending more than US $ 4,360, still paying and dreaming about finding a billionaire who's willing to give him a job, share with him part of her wealth and marry him.

Out of curiosity, I created 5 accounts, 5 different names. I did my comparison between those accounts. I got letters from the same women to all my accounts. Some of those letters are exactly the same, word by word. The only difference is the name they put on the letter. You can try this method and see for yourself.

Look... even if you happen to have a mount Himalaya size of gold from top to the core of the earth, spend it for some nice vacation. Go to the land where you want to find a real woman and get a real flesh relationship.

If you are a hard worker earning your money just enough for a cozy life, just stay away from this site.

If you are still in this site dreaming about getting a goddess-like billionaire willing to give you all her wealth wife, I deeply pity you.

I added some picture below, take a look at them.

Here is something you might want to read:
http://www.szdaily.com/content/2015-04/23/content_11497822.htm

And this:
http://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-china-36950013

And this is something you might want to watch:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WtMF5YtCw8M

Where to start I am an online investigative blogger and have look in to this and other Asian dating web site. My findings are this site is not a scam as such. But more a money making operation for the site owners and most of the girls on the site. I have chatted with a girl on this site (in code so) site admin don't sack her, as working for Asian date is easy income like most girl are at Asian date she is a student. (better than getting money other ways can make 100$ + per day).

The girls work chatting and sending letters to customers sometime with real photos of themselves but mainly stock photos with an appropriate message to keep the man hooked. When live cam chat you may well find a girl who looks nothing like there profile picture but hey she is Asian and you folks can't tell the difference. Most of these girls are not looking for Mr Right or even Mr Right now. Asian date is there to make money and is good at it a class action might close this site a complaint to google as there is an app might make this site be up front. This site is just a boiler room set up I have click web chat with a girl who sleeping at her desk must have left gam chat on.

But if you have money to burn and want to get letters! And chat with Asian girls this is the site for you, but even if you have money to burn take a flight and get a visa to what ever Asian county you like go to a bar take in a show use a real introduction agency not ASIANDATE.COM or any of the other sites of this company until AsianDate are up front.

Please note they use an online gaming to collect money used for intangible goods transaction in no case give this web site credit card details

ASIANDATE.COM is for entertainment only YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED

Asian Date.com is NOT A DATING SITE! It is an INTERNET SCAM SITE! If you're actually looking for a foreign mate, stay away from Asian Date. This site is nothing but a ripoff. I can't say that none of the women on the Asian Date Site are looking for a mate, but I know that I responded to 71 of the hundreds that contacted me and AsianDate were not. I believe that for the majority of women on this site, this is a job. They are working. I believe that they are on some sort of a commission split and they get a percentage of the money that they can get you to spend communicating with them. In a country the size of China it's probably not to all that hard to find 9 or 10 thousand good looking woman that want to make some extra money chatting with guy's on a dating website. These woman do everything they can to get you to burn through your money as fast as they can by getting you to chat and exchange letters.

Lets count the ways:
1) For starters Asian Date is very expensive. The average American dating site cost between $25 and $50 a month. This buys you all of their services including unlimited commutation. Asian Date on the other hand uses what they call "Credits". They have 3 "Credit" packages. 20 Credits for $16,160 credits for $96 or 1000 Credits for $400. It is difficult to keep track of the "Credits" as you spend them and because they have your credit card they reserve the right to atomically sell you more credits when you run out without letting you know they did it. You can end up spending thousands of dollars a month without ever knowing you did it until you receive you monthly credit card statement.

2) Communicating is very expensive. Letters cost 10 "Credits" to look at a letter from a lady, and another 10 "Credits for you to send a letter to a lady. Live chat, 2 "Credit" per min. You can add Live Video webcam is 6 "Credits" per min. You can set up a live phone call, the charge for that is 10 "Credits per min.

3) The Site blocks you from exchanging email addresses or phone numbers with the woman forcing you to communicate only on the date site. The only option you have to exchange information is to have Asian Date set up a phone call with a woman but if you do she will come up with some excuse not to give you her email address or phone number. A lot of these women claim to be very wealthy business owners or have money because their family is wealthy. But if you ask them to have Asian Date set up a phone call they will not do it. They will respond to you with another letter ignoring your request. Even if they do offer to set up a phone call in their letter to you, if and when you ask them to do it, they will make up some excuse to delay so that you will have to continue communicating on the site. Something like "I'd like to get to know you better first" or "I don't have email" or "I can't make international calls on my phone". Anything to keep you talking. Stall, Stall, Stall, the game here is to keep you spending money.

4) You really have to ask yourself why a young, beautiful, wealthy woman would even be on a dating site. Someone in that position would have an endless procession of suitors chasing her, why would she need to be on a dating site. There are some other things that are a give-a-way that the women are not illegitimately looking for a mate. 1) They talk endlessly about sex. They will offer you a 3 ways with them and their girlfriends or sisters. In the case of younger women in their 20's, them and their mothers. In the case of older women in their 40's and 50's, them and their daughters. 2) Some of them claim to have obscene amounts of money that they want to bring to the relationship. One young woman even said she had millions of billions. Some offered to come and visit and bring suitcases full of money. It was as if they had no concept of the value of money. At the very least you would think they would know you can't travel with a suitcase full of money. Once again the game here is to keep you talking and spending money.

I did manage to find a flaw in their site, I was able to send a message to a women without it costing any money using the chat feature. I would send a quick note to a woman telling her that I had received a message from her and I would ask her to have Asian Date setup phone call between us. Then as soon as I saw her starting to reply so I would know that she had seen my message, I would terminate the chat so there would be no charge. I got away with this for about 4 days then they took my profile down. I went from receiving 250 to 300 letters a day, often 4 to 5 letters from same woman to nothing overnight.

In summation, if your goal is sex talk with a good looking woman and you have a lot of money to waste then Asian Date is the site for you. If on the other hand your sincerely looking for a mate then you really should look elsewhere.

Okay so I just registered to this site and started to look at some of the members. I thought the good reviews here are real but what I experience is the opposite.

1. I tried to see the settings. Only to see a button for "automatically purchase credit when you lack credit". So basically this site could be stealing your money anytime.

2. I took a look at some profiles. From the search result, ALL of the people are girls and using their candid photos, none are natural. And if you look at their descriptions, AsianDate don't make sense. Instead it's like they're trying to bait you out with the word "sex"

3. You actually use credits to communicate. Combine with point 1, this site is going to drain your credit the longer you're trying to get in touch with people. Not to mention point 2 indirectly says those people are probably fake and scammers.

In the end this site is much more fake than the others. I'm not sure why ReviewFeeder hasn't realized that all those 5 star reviews here are probably paid reviews. Give them good ratings for free credits. It even ask you for your site ID which is very suspicious. Considering this kind of stuff should be done anonymously.

Update: until now look at what registering to this site do to you when you don't pay. Apparently they will start spamming you, and brings out their sister sites to do the same.

If only ReviewFeeder actually cares about actual reviews instead of fakes, all those 5 stars should be judged because as someone who actually tried, this site is the WORST of all dating sites.