BeNaughty

My name is Richard Calder, i joined your BeNaughty site on October 11th for the 3 day trial for $2.99 via echeck. On the same day easydate not only took took $2.99 from my account as i authorized for the 3 day trial use, but also took $24.99 for a full month subscription gold member. This explains the problem i encountered some 10 days later when i tried several times to upgrade to no avail because easydate had me registered as an ongoing customer with subscription time available until November 10 at 9:45 p m. But, i did not have the service as i complained numerous times about to you. Easydate should have no problem reveiwing and reimbursing my 24.99 which was totally unauthorized. My bank records are proof these transactions took place, why would someone pay for a 3 daytrial membership and the same day pay 24.99 to upgrade? I did not do this, but i will not stop untill i am reimbursed my money. This will be turned over to the fraud departmemt of my bank you cannot use 1 check number as required on the echeck form and apply 2 purchases to it... that is outrite fraud. You maybe in the UK but fraud is fraud in America where you are per Scam/fraud exposeing sites have been useing these practices for sometime now. I await your response.

This is the response i received from EASYDATE, notice how unprofessional the letter written and never mentions my refund. Will keep the public updated on final results.

Dear member,
Thank you for contacting customer service.
We take complaints against members very seriously. Unfortunately we do have the occasional member who is insincere and gets through the system. Once recognised we quickly removed them from our database. However, the problem of female scammers and advertisers has become very urgent within the Internet. We are constantly filtering members' IP addresses and mailing processes to settle this issue down. Although it is time-consuming procedure to trace the scammers on the stage of registering with our site due to the use different tactics, we are interested in spotting fakes and taking them off our database.
Every profile created on our website is manually checked and approved before being allowed on the site. We have various security checks when approving profiles, but some users still manage to sneak by these checks and onto the website. For these users we rely heavily on other online members to report them so we may remove them from the site before BeNaughty manage to cause any trouble. Still Easydate Ltd do not and can not guarantee success while using our online dating services. Our site is not involved in Member-to-Member dealings.
Our job is to make sure our site is as friendly as possible and that all members have a positive experience.
Please would you be so kind as to list the members that you think may be fraudulent so that we may take action?
Thank you for reporting this to us we really appreciate members like yourself.
Thank you for using our site,
Good luck!
EasyDate Customer Service
Polly Jenkins

This was the best, right here, for it's almost word for word what "Angel" said to me!''
This SCAM is crap, run far away from it and its FAKE GIRLS!

"very glad u answered.
Didn't say how old i was - am 24
Just checked, i can accom, you'd need get to where i live on carrison
Street. That's in berkeley
If not, i would prefer to find a motel... the motel 6 on embarcadero
Street in oakland seems great.
Are you able to come and hook up at the westfield center around 9?
That'd be excellent! No big deal if you can't.
Lets talk more online soon. Can't phone right now. Too shy! But click
On this... we can talk on here.
http://benaughlty.com/profiles/...
It takes about 2 mins to make the profile, don't cost nothing either.
Make sure and check out my naughty photos aswell! Those revealing ones!
Going online to chat with you straight away, my nickname is... there.
Will be waiting for you babe.
Hug!
Donna

Not sure where Id be without BeNaughty and HookupHangout (the other site I use), love how getting messages from guys (most anyway) gives me a spring in my step! Like how BeNaughty send compliments over what im wearing (which isnt very much FYI) in my profile pics. And when I eventually choose one to meet with at the weekend, I like how I get treated like a princess, taken for meals and then more often than not, if all has gone well, taken to bed lol! Im a student so I dont feel like im a slut, im just more at ease with my sex life than most people. Plus its just the way people are these days, guys and girls. Most of my class (I mean the girls as well as the guys) are on these sites or some kind of online hookup site. Its fun and its not like you have to do anything you dont want to. I love it anyway and its free for me, so I really dont know why I wouldnt use it! Yes you get the occasional a-hole but thats why I like to chat a bit first before actually meeting up, as there must be a lot of weirdos out there. But if your careful (I even went on a double date with my friend once) and use common sense then I dont see what could go wrong. Meet in crowded places, speak beforehand over messages and on the phone, thats what I do anyway, and set it up so you have a friend call you half way into the night to speak. Some people even create a code, like if you meet with an ugly guy you have a code word to get them to come and save you! Id recommend the site if you dont mind a laugh, arent scared to leave your comfort zone and are willing to try something new and different.

SUMMARRY: *warning*. This site is pure scam. YOU CANNOT REMOVE YOUR ACCOUNT using the "remove account" link under your profile's settings after you're in. The only choice provided is to *upgrade* to a paid subscripion; which in turn continues infinitely. The subscription is muddy to terminate, very difficult. And you can't be sure if your credit card bills stop.

What you get after you log in? Lot messages from all over telling how nice to meet you. The senders don't even check your profile. You get messages even if you donät have photo! The only way to read messages is by UPGRADING to a paid subscription. Don't bother. All the messages are fakes; sent by imaginary people. The photos are all fakes. The company has hired lots of workers to send fake and nice messages to all newcomers to get them to subscribe. If there are some real messages, you can't really tell. The whole thing is just nicely packages scam.

Btw, this company has opened several similar other sites that operate exactly the same way. All the foul pictures are the same. Like www.douwant.me

Simply. Stay away. And spread the word.

First of all, i have paid a 3 days try out. The only answer you get are from bots. You know, because BeNaughty answer in the same way and you've been on the site for 5 minutes and you already have 10 messages of «girls» saying they want you. After 10 minutes of chatting, they all have to leave, but they stay online... you know...
So the same they i canceled my account, aftert arguing for 15 minutes with a customer service clerk (that i had to call). Finally they cancelled my a account.
The day after, i have a charge of 39,99$ CA on my credit card for a subscription on loveaholics.com (wich is the same interface as benaugthy.com but with different colors) a site that a have checked out but never subscribed to. The company that charges your credit card is tnpay4tn.com and they are really dificult to join. I had to call the security department of Master Card to join them and make a conference call with me in it to make sure the refund the charge.

So Stay Away!

Registered for benaughty around a month and a half ago. It has its good points but I'd say it's probably a 6/10 at best, similar to adult friend finder but not as good as hookuphangout.com in terms of actual results (and not just chats or webcam sessions, I mean meetups cos that's why im doing any of this in the first place). You get all the usual junk, models looking to talk to you before you've even added a pic and other little annoying things that are all too common on these sort of sites. There are quite a lot of real girls in my area but im not getting much in the way of interaction with them. And if there weren't any girls I wouldn't have signed up anyway. But my overall feeling is that it will take far too long to get anywhere using this site unless I use it with a few others, and im just not prepared to shell out for three memberships so its most likely that this one will have to go.

Once you give them your credit card information you are in for a lot of hassle trying to not get charged monthly. BeNaughty require a phone call to cancel your subscription and when you try they talk really fast and make it confusing such that they transfer your account to getnaughty.com which they also own. Then you say you don't want that and they give you a week free for something else which will end up in a monthly payment after the trial is over.

100% of the girls there are fake. They claim they don't hire people and whatnot, but they have only fake profiles. They all say the same thing. "wanna chat?" "Let's chat" "can u chat right now" "chat this chat that". No one in America uses the word chat so often and every girl in benaughty says it. Their grammar was also off, leading me to believe the fake profiles are people not in America.

Also what you guys can do is save the image of the profile and upload it on tineye.com to get a reverse image search. You will find 80% of the girls stole their profile picture from other places. The other 20% are still not real though, just doesn't get found where they got their picture from. Most are from whatboywant.com.

When I ask a girl for her number or email address or some form of verification they completely dodge the question. They say "I like this site for now" "we can chat here" "Trust me i'm real" (even though tineye.com says otherwise) "Don't take this the wrong way, but I don't even know you"

They are all fake. Do not get your hopes up or think, well maybe... I did and had to go through a very annoying process in canceling.

Not a bad hook up option if you are single guy or girl and just looking for fun. Id say its almost as good a website as hookuphangout.com (usually seen as the site that gives you the biggest amount of real women in uk/ us cities and towns if you read the reviews) and its not expensive, especially if you compare it to other ways of getting no strings sex lol! Lets see you could go to a hooker and pay a fortune every night, if you are really lucky you could take girls out on dates and basically lie that you want a relationship lol or you could go out to clubs and pubs every weekend and hope to go home with a girl but more than likely end up going home on you're own lol! Forking out the price of a decent nightclub entry for a month of chatting to chicks is not something I can get pissy about, so I'm happy with the site even if i don't always score, at least I'm always meeting new girls and working towards getting laid. Cant really argue with that so will keep using the site!

Don't use it. I'm a genuine female user looking for no-strings fun and I'm lost in all the many fake female profiles. I haven't had to pay for anything, which is good because, frankly, the site is so appallingly laid-out and dysfunctional that I feel bad for anyone who's had to pay to subscribe/use. I've had angry/hurt messages from men I've chatted to asking why I'm not responding to their messages and assuming, probably from past experience on the site, that my lack of response means I'm some sort of scam. The simple answer is I haven't responded because I CAN'T. I try to chat/message, nothing happens. Here's what I've learned from my short time using BeNaughty: sexual frustration is bad enough without basic commuication problems adding to it. There are better sites out there. Oh, and BeNaughty send other members messages and 'auto-replies' in my name without my approval, constantly. I had to mess around until I learned how to disable that... So even 'real' women are being used as fakes and decoys... I feel pimped out and deeply insulted-- the things the auto-replies say are stupid beyond belief and things I would *never* say sent to men I have no interest in, giving them a false impression, which is, I'm sure, hurtful to them. A site that uses its own customers as bait? That only charges men and homosexual women (I'm bisexual-- so does that mean I pay half price? Lol)... That puts things like 'hey sexy u want to chat?' in the mouths of intelligent women, speaking for them? It shouldn't be allowed to continue. I'm going back to the bars...

Been on it a few weeks. It's all just automated profiles it seems like. Most all the messages I got were generic "junk mail" type opening liners with slight variations in wording. Doesn't take a genius to figure out these are not real "individual" women. Either BeNaughty are bots or just girls spamming as many sites as they can to make a buck online. 8 out of 10 seem to be like that. A few will converse but after a few minutes you get the old "go to this website" routine. Then when you try to cancel you get a 6 question essay on why you want to cancel and an option to pay more money if you want to weed out "spammers". This leads me to believe they inject spam to get you to pay more to get rid of it. Then at the end of the 6 question essay you are told to call a number to cancel. You can't even cancel online. My guess is you will be cancelling your credit card to get rid of this. Be warned.

I made the huge mistake of signing up for the 3 day trial for 3 dollars. Figured it couldn't hurt to try it out. It's just 3 bucks for 3 days, right? Had to give debit card info to open the account. Once i saw how worthless the site was, I turned off the auto renew feature on their website almost immediately, even called the phone number provided for cancellation and talked to a REAL PERSON to verify that auto renew was turned off and I could not be charged again past the 3 day trial period.

Lo and behold, shortly after the trial period, a mysterious charge shows up on my bank account for almost 35 dollars. I had to call the bank to figure out what this unknown charge was about. Turns out it was from an online dating service.

These people are absolute shameless online scammers and fakes. Not only were 99% of the profiles on their site obviously completely fake, just people using false pictures of attractive women to try to milk you for personal information, BeNaughty tried to make unauthorized charges to my bank account after the fact, and take money I absolutely did NOT agree to pay for any service.

I not only turned off the auto renew online, I actually called in an talked to a REAL person by phone to make SURE there would be no auto renew charges posted to my account. And STILL they tried to charge me. The charges are now disputed by my bank and I'm receiving a full refund for stuff I never agreed to.

DO NOT trust these people with your banking info. They will rip you off. Stay away at all costs!

I'll be honest i singed up for the free to join, but could not read any emails or contact any of the women until i signed up for free trial or as a full member. But when after reading about other site on the internet about how other people had been conned & ripped off as soon as BeNaughty put their credit card details in.So it made me cautious about giving out my card or banking details to any site unless world trusted. Well anyway when i checked out this site be naughty it seems like the same problem, you get tons of emails & as soon as you give your bank & card detail & try to contact the emails & no replys & so on.So thanks to everybody on this site for warning people & making people aware of such sites like this one & others like it that copy the same practices. I feel sorry for the people who were ripped off & conned by such sites. I hope something gets done about this problem by some sort of law enforcement agency,& get thees people back the money that they should be given that was wrongly taken from them.If thees sites were honest in the first place & people were happy, then they'd get good reviews & would also be recomended by people who liked thees sites & they would make they're money.If there was somebody your not intrested in, then you could easy block them.& that men & women should both pay.

I don't want to give any stars to this because it is nothing but a scam (but have to give at least one to get it published). The majority of profiles are fake (and you don't have to be Sherlock Holmes to work out that stunning models aged 20-25 don't need to look for dates on internet sites). The worst part is that it is almost impossible to remove your details and if you have given them your credit card details, even if for (supposedly) 99cents, god help you.

Even trying to remove the account where we had given them no financial details involved nasty virsuses on our computer. There is a way to do it (google 'remove account for XXX' It does work). But interestingly, in the up to ONE HOUR it takes for them to email you the code to completely remove your account, we got over 160 messages from "genuine future partners" begging us to stay on line. PLEASE. This site is a disgrace, a sham and preys on vulnerable people. Please don't fall for it!

Could be a great site but terrible as it is. A great idea but executed very poorly.
1. Interface (the most useful feature of the website)
The chat interface is broken. I reported this many times and no action was taken. I tested it with a woman I met on the site. I sent her messages and she sent me messages…. Nothing came through. When we went to support, BeNaughty claimed the people were ghosting us. SMH …. Guys, if you are chatting out your best lines and you cannot be sure if it is getting to the woman or if she is capable of responding …. You are wasting your money.
2. Women on the site –
A. The site does not require women to adequately fill out the questionnaire; I had no idea who I was communicating with most of the time.
B. Women who do not pay for a membership may not be able to respond to your chats. I did not find this out until I had used the site for a while. Guys, you cannot tell which women can respond and which ones cannot, so you don't know if you are being ghosted or if the woman is interested and just cannot respond.
C. Scammers -Until I figured out a work around, I was approached by hundreds of women selling one service or another or attempting to scam me. It was more than annoying, dealing with all the scammers, the company could fix this if they tighten their policies.
3. Billing Scam
A. Additional Charges from other billing names- I upgraded on a credit card, the charge came through I accepted it but then an additional charge came through with another named on it. My credit card company verified the same Billing ID as BeNaughty.com multiple times but a manager on benaughty.com denied it was their charge.
B. Prepaid Card Lies – I tried to pay with a prepaid Credit Card as customer support had suggested - I could not. A lie, multiple support people told me was that I could pay with a Prepaid card (I live in the US). My PrePaid card could not be used outside the US on a website …. BN also does not tell its customers it is a foreign company and support is operated in the Philippines. I do not care to ascribe reasons to why BN wants its customer to pay by credit card, but you can figure it out.
4. Customer Non-support
A. Customer support was downright rude and had no interest in helping me resolve my issues. Three customer support managers hung up on me. In dealing with customer support, I got the feeling that their attitude was …. "Take what we give you, if you don't like it, go somewhere else."

BTW Check the BBB rating on this site before signing up.

I first joined this site approx 6 years ago, it was good with plenty of genuine ladies on site, suspect that with the advent of many other similar sites there is a real shortage of women on this site, women, I used to chat to regularly, their photographs remain but are used for repetitive robot replies in identity theft mode " Hey Hey Hey! " " Hola! " Tell me what is the perfect match for you " " So what are you up to right now!? " " Are you up for some adventures? " " Hey wanna have some fun with a chick like me? " " Hey mister wanna get to know me better? " " I'm new to all this can you help me I am really shy! " " Hello ther :) do you like naufgty girls? " As a good lover what will you do first when you turn out to be in my room? " I'm looking for a best friend is it you? " 99 % of the so called women use these mindless expressions over and over again, it is enfuriating to think that this site can operate like this and treat its members like fools, this site is a rort, filled with autoreply identity thieving fake robots ( Female members on this site do not have a problem because there is an unlimited amount of genuine men on it) It is almost impossible to terminate your membership and have any kind of meaningful discussion with staff, you are urged to report fake members, I have reported 100s of them but no steps are ever taken to remove them because this is their core business, no response ever excludes stupid grinning signs such as :) after every moronic comment, never cease to be amazed how a flagrantly dishonest and fraudulent site like this can continue to operate without any intervention by some authority

It's the most disgusting scam I've ever seen, and be very careful, BeNaughty have lot of websites which are the SAME, all clones with different names and color but same fake women: sexintouch, ebonyflirt, loveaholic, shagaholic, naughtydate and a few more.
Unless you're a very very naive person, you'll immediately see that the 90% if not all female members are scammers, bots, and fake or inactive profiles managed by employees of the website.
The conversations you'll have will make you feel like you're taking with a crazy person, answering totally unrelated things, or answering with other questions, or saying strange things, then contacting you again another day acting like you'd never talked before, and more.
All is a mix of bots and employees, plus a huge, absolutely overwhelming amount of scammers trying to get your email and then asking you money.
Plus, at the exact moment of creating an account, with no pic and no info, you receive a ton of messages from super top models living just in your area. Plus, if you subscribe and cancel the subscription, in the very exact second that the subscription ends you suddenly receive a ton of messages and you can't read them anymore of course.
Do not, I repeat do not waste time and money there.
And if you do, after reading this warning, you deserve the consequences.

I joined a couple of days ago and the first thing you notice is all the nudes. I started liking people and without fail BeNaughty favourite me, I didn't even have a photo at that stage. So I chat with a couple, they all respond the same way. Ok, so now I'm curious, Friday I upload a couple of photos and liked as many girls as I could, maybe 50+, all in the age range of 42 to 54. Today, being Saturday, I opened the chat and sent them all the same message "How's your weekend?"... Here's why they are bots, or scams... They all answered with proforma replies either "My weekend was great, shame it's over now." "Weekend was really great! Looking forward to another one lol", "Oh! It was great! Weekend was relaxed and peaceful." They all answered in the past tense, yet it was only Saturday morning and the weekend had just begun. This was the best fake reply, again in past tense "I was sick and stayed in bed for all weekend, so my great plans for the weekend crashed :( And you?". Please do not go near this site, out of 50+ people I asked about there weekend, I got 30 odd responses straight away, and not one of them was a real person, otherwise, they would have answered in the present, something like, "My weekend is going great, what about you?"

BN is up there with the main sites for the more casual online dating (this is not a site to find love, unless by love you mean checking into a dingy hotel with a stranger and screwing her senseless for an hour before wondering if you should pay for the room or split the cost. And if you do call that love, then you need your head examined!) Ive had some good chats on it and met a couple of girls in the few months I've been a paid member. Must say I like it in general, I use a few of these kind of sites together and that seems to work well, I usually get at least one dirty chat going at the weekend and sometimes more (had a webcam sess on hookuphangout.com last friday and blew my beans in minutes, girl was stunning, was fairly embarrasing!) If you are thinking of joining up id say give it a try, its cheap enough to try out for a while (i would suggest no less than 3 months) and I'm sure youll do ok. Unless you look like an ugly sloth and smell like mouldy cheese, in which case you should just become a monk.

I only give one star because you can't give none...

Appauling scam. It's only a shame that people come to read these reviews AFTER having a terrible experience and not before.

I got notification on my mobile phone for an app and then was bombarded by emails telling me I had messages. Just to find out what BeNaughty were all about - and to try and sign out, I paid £3.50ish for a days membership.

The next day I see my bank account has been charged an additional £14.90 and £39.99. For what?! As far as I was concerned I did not authorise these payments and immediately felt scammed. Astronomical fees, once I had neither ability nor desire to pay. I would not have chosen to make these payments and I felt hoodwinked to make me pay them.

I decided to cancel the membership immediately, but the instructions for leaving were difficult to find on the site and even when you find them you discover you have to make a telephone call with a reference number. Even though the site explains that this is a '24/7' number, it isn't. As soon as I became aware of the payments they had taken I tried to leave and phone this number, but there was no answer. This then meant I wasn't able to cancel my membership in the 3day grace period the company later told me I had to cancel within. I couldn't cancel my membership in the time allowed because I had to call a phone number which was not manned.

Furthermore, calls to the number to resolve these problems were charged at 14p per minute - and there is a long prerecorded message you have to listen to before you get to speak to anyone... further separating you from your cash.

When I eventually got to speak to someone, I had to speak to three people to sort things out. Each one had accents which were very difficult to understand. One person in particular was almost incomprehensible and so it was impossible to understand what he was saying, making it impossible to resolve problems and meaning I then I had to call the number and go through the process - and pay the charges concerned - all over again.

Cowboys. Avoid. Complain. Report them.

There is a reason why companies like this site (be naughty) last so long BeNaughty work. If they never worked, people would leave and nobody would pay for the service. Although I'd say that be naughty is not as good as something like HookupHangout.com I would still be able to testify to it being an idea that can work, when you get some luck. There are lots of people that say its a scam and all that but they arent giving it a chance or they are just expecting to damn much. These sites will not get you laid in seconds guys, wake up and smell the damn coffee already! But you can get some pretty hot chats going, you can arrange dirty webcam chats with sluts in your area or outside your area. And best of all, once in a while the stars allign and lady luck smiles on you and BANG! You get yourself a fine piece of ass and you realise that the past few weeks of sending messages, searching through profiles, avoiding the model 'members' all was worth it and then some. I guarantee you, when you look down and find some hot chick slurpin your salami you will not be thinking boo hoo this site sucks I had to wait to long blah blah blah but you'll be thinking thank you thank you thank you! Does it happen all the time? No freakin way! But does it happen? You bet your bottom dollar it does. Keep you expectations in check, keep tryin and stay positive. It costs you hardly anything and worst case scenario you get some hot cyber a few times a month with girls that are so much fun. It's worth it if like me, you have no interest in long term relationships or going steady. Screw that, ill take the chance of finding sex online over that stuff any day of the week lol! Peace out.

SCAM! STAY AWAY. The site itself is flooded with bots, but the real pain is what happens when you cancel. I canceled after one day of a trial membership. BeNaughty make you call on the phone to cancel. When you do, they will try to offer you membership in other sites like quickflirt.com. I said NO, I do not want membership in any other sites. Finally they said my subscription was canceled. Three days later I get a charge for $36.41 from a merchant I'd never heard of, alepaym.com. I looked them up and called the number. Not sure, but it could have been the same voice I'd spoken to cancel my benaughty membership. It took about five minutes of them asking me for personal info before I could find out that I'd been charged for a membership on quickflirt.com! It took another ten minutes of arguing to get them to say they would give me a refund, during which they kept trying to talk me into another month of membership.

It is truly sad to see all those who have been scammed by BeNaughty. Sadly, as I read the experiences of others, BeNaughty mirror mine.

However, my anger has softened and I write this reply after a cooling off period. This is important as I feel it is necessary to set out my experience with BeNaughty, in the hopes of convincing others to stay away from them and their other dating sites.

Here is what you need to be aware of:

(1) At BeNaughty, they ask you to cancel your membership prior to expiration of your membership or they will continue to bill you. This "negative optioning" is a tactic that no respectable business will employ. In Canada, the telecommunications giant, ROGERS, tried this and there was an enormous backlash as it was widely held that this tactic would allow the giant to take money which was never intended for them. Sound familiar with BeNaughty?

(2) Your attempts to cancel will be fraught with difficulty. First, you must cancel online, then call in with a cancellation code which will force you to speak with one of their operators (keep in mind that none of the larger more reputable dating sites have a 2-stage cancellation procedure).

This 2-stage process is a major pain in and of itself, but it is obviously a way for them to keep you on the hook for as long as possible for further billing. In my case, their website verified my successful cancellation several times. I was careful to cancel online many times, to ensure I would not be billed further. The first call I made to quote the cancellation code made it clear that the code was not needed. In fact, they never asked for the code. They offered extended membership and upgrades for free. But what they don't tell you is that they will not accept your request for cancellation at that time, and you must call in again. Once again, I cancelled successfully online several times. However, on the new day of expiry of my membership, I called to ensure cancellation was successful. The operater saw my efforts to cancel, and updated my file accordingly to show my request for cancellation came prior to my membership expiry date.

This is where the scam comes alive: I noted my credit card was billed and called them. They sent my complaint "up" and I received only emails saying they could not give refunds. Even in the face of my case showing their online website erred several times by verifying my request, and, their operator updating my file with my request to cancel, they would still not refund.

To be clear, I am a lawyer. I know their fine print says cancellation must be online and then verbally. This puts an onus on the member. However, in law, their "no refund" policy is not to absolve them of responsiblity when their website errs or their phone operator ignors your wishes. Despite me asking for a specific response to what they will do given their website and phone operator shortcomings, they would only quote the "no refund" policy. See the absurdity? In other words, they will not refund your money no matter what error they make in billing you.

(3) The site itself is a hot-bed for scammers. Your inbox fills daily with obvious scammers. Communicate with them briefly and you will soon be asked to send the scammer money for their cause. Even without communicating with them, it soon becomes apparent that a contact from the other side of the earth must be a scammer. In fact, some of the contacts will come from fictional cities.

(4) Reporting the scammer is not worthwhile. I reported dozens and continued to see them appear subsequent to my complaint.

(5) As your membership expiry date approaches, you will begin to see your inbox fill up. No doubt the administrator is doing this to beckon you to extend your membership.

In summary, your money will be wasted as this site has dozens more scammers than legitimate members, and you will always be at risk for being billed further given the difficulties they will cause you when you wish to cancel.

As a futher caveat, be aware of their other sites. Below is a list of the sites that they offerred myself membership in lieu of a refund, which I obviously did not accept. They considered it better for them to have my money and see this review online.

http://www.benaughty.com/
http://www.flirt.com/
http://www.clickandflirt.com/
http://www.cheekylovers.com/
http://www.wildbuddies.com/
http://www.spicymeetings.com/
http://www.loveaholics.com/
http://www.ebonyflirt.com/

If anyone needs further clarification, I am more than willing. (note that I did make a positive connection with this site, but obviously that does not mean that BeNaughty is reputable, ethical and/or scamless)

IMO BeNaughty is one of the top sites for casual fun. I joined after my friend (gay male) told me to give it a go to help me get over my a-hole ex cheating on me. I think he was half joking but I signed up after a few glasses of wine and added some snaps, some information about my interests and all that other stuff. I think the messages started that night but certainly by the time I checked my email the next day I had quite a few interesting options, shall we say lol! Since then i've met some really great guys, both on this site and the other one I use (its called hookuphangout.com FYI). I find it to be safe, despite the fact I would never tell my mother that I use it lol! Also, I know quite a few girls that use these sites and dont feel embarrassed or ashamed. Why shouldnt we play the field a little before we settle down? Guys have been doing it for years! For me and my generation, it just makes total sense, i'd even say that its sensible as it means you wont regret or have FOMO when you're older and you finally get the whole nuclear family thing set up. One thing id change on the site is the sheer number of guys that use their profile pic as a chance to flash the world their wanger lmfao! It's not cute, it's not sexy and it's not gonna work! Apart from that, its good fun!

This is one site full of many problems. Here are some of them:

1. Poor at giving out refunds (Here is a story from scam.com)

Topic: Beware; dating site benaughty.com is a scam

Author: madseadog

Date: 06-15-2009, 05:14 PM

"After offering you a 3 day trial period for 2.99 GBP, BeNaughty then help themselves to a month membership fees after you give them your credit card details.
When you complain after checking your account, (as in my case 2 weeks later, fortunately sooner rather than later) they say they don't refund your money as you used the site.
After reading through all the small print, you are supposed to give them 3 days notice not to become a full member which actually means you are supposed to do this before you actauly join! If you don't notify them, they just continue to milk your account!
This is nothing more than a money stealing scam-don't even go there!"

2. Many Fake profiles (Story from the complaints board)

Author: Torntone

Date: Posted: 2011-04-26

Topic: They purposely use fake profiles and fake msgs to get you to sign up

"After creating a profile for BeNaughty.com i was hit with over 50 emails from supposed other members wanting to chat but when i bought the membership emails down to zero and the women in the chat are all from Ghana or want you to view their camshow... I personally think that Benaughty.com should be sued for everything they are worth and shut down immediately... they purposely use fake profiles and fake msgs to get you to sign up. Stay away from it, i learned the hardway."

3. Possible "claims" of photo tempering (Story also from the complaints board)

Author: compu8

Date: Posted: 2011-09-24

Topic: Illegal use of my photo

"I am writing to you because i feel abused and helpless. I joined an adult dating site a few months ago, it is called BENAUGHTY.COM A few days ago I discovered that my profile was used illegally by the administration team to contact members of the site that I had no interest in. I was very annoyed and decided to give up on there services. After that I found a new fake profile on the site that had my pictures and wrong details pretending I was a different person. I contacted them by phone and several emails and they have been ignoring me. Please help me I don't know what to do to get that fake profile cancelled. I feel used and its making me very depressed that they are using my image to get different men to pay for subscription to join their site without my approval. Please help me! Please."

This benaughty.com site should end up being nonexistent for all of its bad and negative ways.

This site would be better off advertising as a cyber sex site, no different than phone sex or sexting, except BeNaughty will SCAM your financial info, EVERYTHING. The site itself (who ever is working on this end of the site) had changed 1}my profile /user name ON THEIR OWN 5 times 2) changed the "about me" More than a dozen and 3) even my PASSWORD, and when I emailed to chance my password they would send me a link, and although I had my email OPEN and ready to "click: when link recieved, I'd click and it would say "link to change password expired"! Straight out programed from A-Z to scam you out of your money. I have 21min and 18 seconds of video to prove the unauthorized changes, and will be reporting this activity to the proper government authorities. If you DO NOT WANT identity theft, use a pre-paid credit card as I did. Otherwise, the fraudulently and immediately charge you $36.99 on a 30 day, for a 3 day trial membership, even though it states only $2.99 will be charged for the 3 day trial. Thank goodness they'll never get my $$$ DO NOT TRUST THIS SITE AT ALL< DO NOT USE!

This was an interesting experience. BeNaughty started out great with a low-cost initial option, however, any payment you make to them is then set to auto-renew for a full 30 day account when the first one expires. This is important in my review later on. So I bought the 7 day package to get my feet wet. The site is really slick and has some interesting features that many other sites would be good to mimic. You don't email anyone - but you do chat directly... and that works as both email and immediate contact if they happen to be online. If you're a guy, don't waste your time with likes or flirts... girls get HUNDREDS of these every day, so you will disappear into the maelstrom of messages. For me, a 50-ish, average looking guy, I currently have 85 of these likes. However, that's where things begin to run aground. Most of these are from 20-something hotties with exceedingly sexy pictures on their accounts. Even middle-aged women have exceedingly sexual pictures. They are all fake. Now - some of them will respond to chats, but only for a moment and then they will ghost. I identified about 20 bots immediately after joining (using questions in chat that flummoxed the poor bot), waded through the piles of "Send me your phone" messages from scammers and eventually had a small list of women who appeared to be real. None answered messages. Every night between 5 and 7pm, if you happen to be logged in, you'll get hit with 10-20 chat requests with highly charged sexual language. If you respond, it is exceedingly rare any respond back. I generally asked a question about their photo and that would guarantee the bot had no way of answering. There also appear to be hired chatters... they will answer questions suggesting they are real humans, but they will always change the subject if you get too personal, ask questions about their location, or try to pin them down on why they are on the site (I'm there to meet someone, not chat, for heaven's sake). They require you to call a 1-800 number to stop your account from auto-renewing, too. And the poor call center girl had a long script she had to get through before allowing the account to be deactivated. Just stay away...

VERY SOPHISTICATED & ELABORATE SCAM SITE!
I want to rate it ZERO out of Five!

I give credit to the very smart people that set up and must be making a ton of money off this very sophisticated scam site.
Think of how much money BeNaughty must be making if they can afford to pay people to run fake ads and sit around and "fake chat" with the suckers that sign up.

Like other people have said, some 'naughty hotty' saw my singles ad. On Craigslist and begged me to chat with her on Be Naughty.
She seemed local and knew a few local references, so stupidly, I played along.

She was gone by the time I tried to find her on BN, but I got hooked on BN because it was so cheap to sign up for a few days and had so many local hot chicks listed, even though I had read all the reviews about the billing issues and scam warnings.

Well let me tell you what I learned:

When you sign up for their very inexpensive 'trial membership" you need to look carefully at the many default settings that are checked off that say you are agreeing to automatic renewal and upgrade of your membership.

Even when you uncheck these, you end up paying double the quoted price.
But it's still super cheap compared to other dating websites, so you will want to give it a try. It's up to you. My advice is read my review and don't bother.

The fun starts when you realize that you want to get out!

I got so sick of the scams that I discovered in the first 36 hours on this site, that I wanted to cancel my membership before it ran out.

You need to navigate deep into your account settings to find the cancellation setting.
Then they email you a 'cancellation code' created and tell you that YOU HAVE TO PHONE THEM TO CANCEL YOUR SUBSCRIPTION using the code they just emailed to you. By the way, they are open 8am-5pm.

When I did call to cancel, the "Customer Service Rep" RAISED HIS VOICE AT ME, CUT ME OFF, TRIED TO SPEAK OVER ME AND TELL ME THAT I WAS WRONG! WTF?

The guy said I didn't need to phone them because I had already clicked on the cancel setting and that he wouldn't delete my account because I had another 48 hours free left on it. When I read back to him exactly what the cancellation email said "call this number to cancel" he got angry with me and started talking over me.
When I said I was getting all kinds of spam email, he said "Well, you don't have to cancel because of that, it's my job to take care of that for you, I will fix it."

They are well trained and pushy. If you are a thrill seeker, then by all means, sign up to Be Naughty and go through this too.

How many professionally photographed HOT, HORNY, LONELY 23 year old girls do you think are super attracted to divorced guys in their 40's?
Well, I can tell you, on Be Naughty, there are LOTS OF THEM!

As soon as your account is active, you start receiving flirts and messages from "local" girls.
Again, it's sophisticated robot software that matches your location settings to hundreds of fake profiles and then starts sending you winks, flirts and cookie-cutter messages.

Then you will find yourself actually chatting with a real person. Wow! Far better response times than Match.com or Adultfriendfinder, right? Yes, but they are paid chatters.

I was skeptical that I was chatting with a "local girl", so I threw her a curve ball in the middle of our chat:
"What's your favourite mall to shop at (in our town)"
She replied "Thanks, so what would you consider doing fun and naughty with a girl like me?"

One girl admitted to me that she was paid to chat and keep me using the website.
Another "local girl" I could see logged on for 14 hours. At one point her mannerisms changed and she started using very British slang. Oh, surprise! Be Naughty is HQ'd in the UK.

Don't get me wrong, there are some "real" profiles and people using the website. You can easily spot them by their crappy photos or obvious desperate looks. I was able to chat with some of them, but do you want to know WHY none of them ever connect with you outside of the BN website?

It's because BN FILTERS EMAIL ADDRESSES OUT OF CHATS.

When I would type my email address into a chat saying "Hey, let's get out of here. You can reach me at *******@hotmail.com"

The real person I was chatting with told me that they never saw my email address. When they looked at the chat history window, they could see that the sentence with my email address in it was BLANKED OUT.

Again, a very sophisticated website that is able to filter email addresses out of chats to prevent people from connecting outside of BN.

You can get around this by typing your email address like this:
"joesaddress at hot mail dot com"

I met some people that could read my email address, but they admitted that they worked for the website and were paid to keep me talking and/or were accessing BN from Flirt.com.

One great girl convinced me to watch her cam for free, on a pay per use site (juicycams.com that had bad reviews too, I noticed). I had to give my credit card information to sign up "for free" to juicycams.com, but then she wanted me to watch her on a different webcam site that was affiliated with juicycams.com.

The only catch was that I had to RE-ENTER ALL OF MY CREDIT CARD INFORMATION ON THIS OTHER 'FREE' CAM SITE TO ACCESS HER.
The site was an obvious fake and I would have essentially handed them my credit card info.

What's crazy is that she was walking me through this process the entire time using the BN chat. The closer I got to entering my credit card info. On the fake cam-site, the more excited she got. And that's when her "English" started going to hell in a handbag and I said:

нет, спасибо!

I paid for one month on a pre paid visa which was supposed to be about thirty bucks but when I eventually checked the transactions on my card BeNaughty had been taking $1.67 out every day after taking the thirty bucks initially. To a total of a hundred and some odd bucks... do not give this company your good credit card. Use a prepaid card then burn it after your done if you feel you have to try this site. So besides that scam there are lots of girls apparently on the site except they seem to be some sort of robot. Before I had a pic up I had lots msging me and I would ask them why would you be msging a guy that doesn't have a pic up and that you have no idea what I even look like only to have them go silent. As soon as your month runs out you will get tons of msgs and I was curious so I paid again only to have none of the girls who had feverishly msged me before not respond. Save ur money. Save ur time. Dont be a sucker like I was. You'll have better luck getting laid on POF or even the newspaper then on this site. The girls will talk to you but they all ask you the exact same questions and when you ask a simple question they won't give you an answer. Usually responding to your question with another question. Completely annoying. Pretty sure they're all spam bots. Not sure how they get the girls pics but I do know it's probly something shady. Jerk urself off and you'll have the same experience without spending your hard earned money and being robbed of the balanceTotal

This company is owned by TOGETHER GROUP BeNaughty own all websites like flirt, cupid, benaughty, shagaholics, loveacholics and a bunch other. The problem lies that its ran by a bunch of $#*!s who have no clue what they are doing. The site is plagued with tons of issues and does not run correctly there is always tons of glitches. They have some volunteer mods that have no freaking clue what they are doing to man the chat rooms and they play favoritism. Site is loaded with fake profiles / scammers and the employees make up tons of fake profiles. And do not get me started with there customer service dept omg they are rude, nasty and lets just say i have a few dead rocks out side that have more brains then they do. They have no clue what is going on try to report a problem and u get the standard message... the site is going under and people DO NOT WASTE UR MONEY. They took cam options off they took all the chat rooms away except for 1 then after everyone started leaving they decided to put 2 back so there are now 3 rooms total. They ban and remove all the regulars the good people especially if they do not like you. They find any reason to have u banned i have seen a few of my friends banned for no reason but yet the scammers and the trouble makers still at large. Then they block you from calling them for answers. One of my friends was fully removed for no reason and yet to this day was never given an explanation as to why? Good riddance i say. I wish this site wld just fold up and go away and all there worth less employees as well.

One Big Scam! - Hi,
This is a message to any men out there wanting to seek 'No Strings Attached' fun over the internet.
I strongly suggest you do not go anywhere near 'benaughty', or it's sister site (which is linked) 'sexintheuk'.
BeNaughty offer free subscription to females which leaves the site vulnrable to fake profiles, of which there are many. There are also a collosal amount of females trying to get you to sign up to webcam sites.
After complaining to the admin team, they had no answers to my questions, nor would they refund me. In the 3 weeks I was registered, I spoke to just 2 real women (totally not what I was looking for either), and one of those we were moaning about the site, she had tried to block some creep that kept emailing her, after complaining to admin, they haven't done a thing about it.
I'm young and good looking - so if it was real surely I would have got at least one offer in that time. I got emails from girls, but they never respond to my replies, nor does anyone respond on the text chat.
I even got an email from some lunatic saying they were going to kill me!

These sites are very poorly managed, no profiles are screened, some of the features (like video chat) do not work properly and all they want is to entice men in and take your money. As far as i'm concerned, it's a fraud! I wouldn't be surprised if they also own some of the webcam sites. The real company name for these sites is 'EasyDate'.

I urge you to steer very clear of these sites!

P.S. I have had to rate this site, unfortunately I can't give it a ZERO star rating.